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Talking With Your Aging Parent About Long-Term Care

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Starting the long-term care conversation with an aging parent is hard. This 30-page printable workbook helps adult children get prepared, practice what to say, and turn one difficult talk into a workable family plan.

Inside the workbook, readers will find:

  • Where Things Stand: An observation log and daily living snapshot to record what you have actually noticed, so you can share specifics instead of accusations
  • What Your Parent Wants: Gentle questions about their goals, fears, and values, plus a “what matters most” ranking to do together
  • Get Your Facts Straight: A care options overview, a cost comparison worksheet, a coverage worksheet, and a legal papers tracker
  • Your Family Team: A planning page to get siblings and relatives on the same page before you talk
  • Words That Work: “Instead of saying… try…” practice, sample rewrites, and a conversation planner
  • “What Would You Do If…?”: 9 realistic scenarios with space to write your response, from a parent who changes the subject to a sudden hospital stay
  • Taking Care of You: A page to work through your own guilt, worry, and support needs
  • Bringing In Professionals: Starter questions for geriatric care managers, elder law attorneys, and social workers, a contact log, and a community tour sheet
  • After the Conversation: Two conversation records and a 30-60-90 day action plan
  • Resources and Next Steps: Where to turn for help, related articles, and a top-three next steps page

Printable, black and white, with plenty of room to write.

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Important Disclaimer: This workbook provides general educational information only and is not a substitute for advice from a licensed professional such as an elder law attorney, doctor, or financial advisor. Rules, benefits, and costs vary by state and situation, so please confirm details with a qualified professional before making care, legal, or financial decisions.

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